Thanks guys for the advice I was worried for a few weeks that I may have to leave certain things unfinnshed for the sake of memory. and I am glad I'm not the only one with tears.... sniffle.
So here is the ren where its at. for the life of me I cant figure out why when I work in my pose files its all good to go but when
I send it back to the render file it balloons or weakens my details.
You can see in the pick below what I mean. it sucks because I've had this thing ready for a few days but when I try bringing it together.. well this. so now Im trying to rework the bad areas right in the render file but its 3 gigs and takes an eternity to rotate or change tools lol. now im going to go find a tiny violin and get someone to play it well i complain lol